Family

The word "family" came across my mind when I was on the bus in my journey back to Kuala Terengganu yesterday.. How did it came across? Hahaha, good question. The day before, I was in a game,and my brothers were kacau-ing while I talk, so there's a few people who said “和哥哥的感情真好” which means the relationship between my brothers and I are close.. Seriously, I love it when people told me such stuff. It proves that I have a good family where our hearts are bind together. Frankly speaking, I am not a smart fella, I definitely dont own one of the smartest brain in the world, neither am I extremely good in anything, but I always have this ambition of being a lawyer(Yes, I do admit that I played too much and should have put in more effort in achieving my dream in which I didnt =X) . Some people might think I am not qualified for it, or even think that "Aiya, you a.. Study law a.. Cannot one lah.. You sure you want to study law a?" But you know what my parents told me? They said, "Go for the things that you want, its your life". My brothers too never pull me down but always encourage me to work hard for Uni.. I feel like I'm the most blessed person when I'm around them.. With them, I can always move on boldly.. Never to fear, nothing to be afraid of.. That is my family =D

Not just these, my relatives, especially my Grandma(s), my uncles and aunties, together with muh cousins, I do heart them loads.. Heart them much more than I personally known, maybe some of them we dont have much topics, or even having some communication breakdown(?!?! =X) but we're still in a family isnt it? hahahaha.. Our family gathered together once in a while, for father's side, we gather more often cause mum's side is a lil far in count of distance.. So yeah.. Therefore, we're pretty close to each other on my Dad's side of family. Needless to say, Bonnie and Nelson are definitely my closest relatives of all, I mean, we played together, grew up together, even bathed together! Woah! LOL Aww, *hearts*.

I dont know how ya all define family. But I personally define it as a body that build one another up, encourage one another, be there for one another, love unconditionally, and hearts joint as one..

As we grow up, we are pampered by our uncles and aunties.. I'd like to start with Uncle Alex.. I could still remmeber that when we were young, during CNY, we would gathered together and play cards, and we never understand how come Uncle Alex always got good cards and win all the time.. Until a few years later that we found out that he actually cheated us -.-" And he would always tell us during the new year eve that whoever finds him first will get the biggest Ang Pao of all.. LOLOLOL!!! So everyone will be finding him everywhere, and guess what? He stayed overnight in my grandpa's far-away-house... (Cheh! No wonder no one found him larh!) hahahhaa... Those days were fun.. Not forgetting my late Uncle Michael who would always ask me to diet LOLOLOL!!! I could also recall that I once followed him to sell car paints by road for one whole day and we had a very nice and long conversation throughout the journey.. And also the bread that he made! Sugar-buttered-bread! NICE!!!!! *drools* Also Auntie Soy Choo who would always ask us to study hard.. hahahahaha and lastly, Auntie Lee Choo who always settle the club's "scholarship" for us and tell us about the singing compy around town... XD

Millions of thoughts actually came into my mind this few months, especially recent weeks.. Questions like how should a family looks like.. What should a family do for each other and such of stuff.. Please keep in mind that I am not talking about the small family where it only includes parents and siblings. I'm also talking about the relatives.. Close relatives =) As mentioned earlier in the beginning of this post, I think a family should help one another, love unconditionally, back one another up.. There's so many cases that relationships within family members breaks because of worldly elements like fame, money etc.. I personally dont see these things equivalent to family relation.. Please dont get me wrong, I am not saying that money is not important. Of course it is, but if its just because of these earthly outcomes that we tends to lose our loved ones.. Its definitely not worth the price.. I believe there are also many people who do not agree with my statement. But these are merely my thoughts, so, kindly pardon me if anything that I mentioned goes against yours.

This is how I see things in a family, everyone lives equally good, no one is to live below the limit as in all the needs are to be covered, whether its education, or even basic needs.. As a family, our mind should always have one another in mind, be it might cost us a lot of things. As mentioned earlier, we are suppose to build one another up, help one another.. Oh please! I am not saying that we are to spoon feed everything, but we can give conditionally. As one family, dont we want to see our loved ones also enjoy good life? I want! I pray that every single one of you will be blessed by the Lord and we'll move on as one, needless to worry about things, with love, compassion and God, I believe all things are possible =D


To my dearest family members,

I heart ya all much more than anything else, I might not be able to help much when you needed things, but I'll do whatever I can to help. And I'm pretty sure my shoulder will be pretty comfortable if you need one to cry on.. Always bare in mind, keep focusing on God, one who loves God, would know how to love one another better =)

With love,
Christina Chin ♥